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It's sad to say this...
Wednesday, 26 May 2010 22:15


Well, here goes...

It’s time to answer some questions and say, “yes, we are moving.”  Dave and I have decided to say goodbye to Philadelphia and move south... the deep south.  New Orleans will be our new home this time next year.  Why New Orleans?  It was a hard sell actually, for me.  Dave fell in love with the city the first time he went there back in 2004.  It grew on me over the years to the point that now it’s our preferred destination when we travel.  2010 has been a year of many changes for both of us... and will continue to be.  It’s not easy to leave a place you consider home, and that’s just what Philly has become for me since I moved here in 1990.  I came out here, I met my husband, I’ve had many careers, many loves, many highs & lows, and many great times with all the great friends I’ve met along the way.  We don’t leave without a sense of loss, but for both of us the draw of something new and different is too great.  Who knows what the future will bring, but it’s time to do something else.

So this means two things... one more Turkey Sandwich Party the likes of which Bonaparte House has never seen.  (Mark your calendars for the weekend before Thanksgiving 2010.)  And one more of  Dave’s greatest loves of Christmas time... the 12 ft Christmas tree will grace the front windows one last time.


But it’s the end of May right now and there is a lot of planning to do, many things to finish, many things to wrap up and to end.  As I said above it’s a sad thing to say goodbye to all the great people who have come into our lives in the past 20 some-odd years, but we’re going to use this time to truly take advantage of you all.  (Ummm, that didn’t sound right)  To … celebrate the great city we are leaving behind and to also celebrate our future, your future... and the great unknown. 

And yes, Dave is ALREADY starting to plan for the parties this fall.

And I'm going to document the entire process here... for better or for worse.  But no matter what I say, as Dave likes to remind me "he signed a piece of paper and now we're married" so he's not going to get rid of me over it.  (If you've never read the story about our wedding, page down and read "Straight Outta Compton" below.

 
Straight Outta Compton
Tuesday, 09 September 2008 20:54

Compton Station
It was a simple plan:  get married.

A lot of people do it.  Most of our friends have done it.  Some of my siblings have done it multiple times.  It's a 'cornerstone' of our society, something so simple yet vitally important to so many.  Well, perhaps it's not all that simple.  And it's definitely not that simple when you are us.  Having to wait until it was actually LEGAL to do so kind of put a damper on the act for many, many years.

So in the spring of this year when California began allowing same sex marriages we thought, 'Hmmmmm.'  (Massachusetts had allowed for marriages to that point, but you had to be a resident of the state to do so.  That has recently changed.)

The threat of it all being overturned this November still hangs over our heads but at least for now we're 'equal not separate.'

But WAIT!  There's more!

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